46 Beautiful Maya Angelou Quotes to Inspire Self Love

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By Anna Marikar

We have gathered together some of the best Maya Angelou quotes. These beautiful words of wisdom from Civil rights activist, Dr. Maya Angelou have a deeper meaning to contemplate and ponder in our lives.

Maya Angelou is a huge inspiration to so many of us. Her words have stayed with me since I first read her books at around 14 or 15 years old, and her wisdom stays relevant from generation to generation.

Here are some of our favorite Maya Angelou quotes, split into themes to make it easy to find the words you need.

Ultimately all of these themes come back to self love in different forms, from overcoming hardships and giving yourself credit for the things you learned along the way, to maintaining boundaries and excepting and accepting the best from others.

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Maya Angelou on Self Love

You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody.

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“When you know you are of worth — not asking it but knowing it — you walk into a room with a particular power.”

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“When you know you are of worth — not asking it but knowing it — you walk into a room with a particular power.”

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Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.

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If you are always trying to be normal you will never know how amazing you can be. 

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If you’re a human being, you can attempt to do what other human beings have done. We don’t understand talent any more than we understand electricity.

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Each of us has that right, that possibility, to invent ourselves daily. If a person does not invent herself, she will be invented. So, to be bodacious enough to invent ourselves is wise.

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Each of us has that right, that possibility, to invent ourselves daily.

I do not trust people who don’t love themselves and yet tell me, ‘I love you.’ There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt.

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I long, as does every human being, to be at home wherever I find myself.

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Maya Angelou on Forgiveness

The most important person to forgive first and foremost is always your self. Self forgiveness goes hand in hand with self love, and is essential for moving forward.

“Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know before you learned it.”

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“Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know before you learned it.”

It’s one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself, to forgive. Forgive everybody.

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When I forgive other people, I let them go, I free them from my ignorance. And as soon as I do, I feel lighter, brighter and better.

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Maya Angelou on Overcoming Difficulties

Maya Angelou’s life was filled with many obstacles from the moment she was born in 1928 in St. Louis, Missouri. She faced racism, sexism, poverty, being abandoned by her parents and raped by her mother’s boyfriend, causing her to become mute for years of her childhood.

Despite her huge challenges, Dr Maya Angelou has wise words on how to overcome hardships and go on to thrive.

We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.

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Look what you’ve already come through! Don’t deny it. You’ve already come through some things, which are very painful. If you’ve been alive until you’re 35, you have gone through some pain. It cost you something. And you’ve come through it. So at least look at that. And have a sense to look at yourself and say, “Well, wait a minute. I’m stronger than I thought I was.”

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Someone was hurt before you, wronged before you, hungry before you, frightened before you, beaten before you, humiliated before you, raped before you… yet, someone survived… You can do anything you choose to do.

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My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.

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I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.

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Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.

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Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.

“You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”

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‘There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.’

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'There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.'

 A wise woman wishes to be no one’s enemy; a wise woman refuses to be anyone’s victim.

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Maya Angelou on Anger

Anger is not a negative emotion, it is often justified and often powerful. Anger is how we push for change.

You should be angry. You must not be bitter. Bitterness is like cancer. It eats upon the host. It doesn’t do anything to the object of its displeasure. So use that anger. You write it. You paint it. You dance it. You march it. You vote it. You do everything about it. You talk it. Never stop talking it.

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use that anger. You write it. You paint it. You dance it. You march it. You vote it. You do everything about it. You talk it. Never stop talking it.

Maya Angelou on Courage

I believe that the most important single thing, beyond discipline and creativity is daring to dare.

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Develop enough courage so that you can stand up for yourself and then stand up for somebody else. 

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If one has courage, nothing can dim the light which shines from within.

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Continue to be bold, courageous. Try to choose the wisest thing and once you’ve chosen the wisest thing go out and try to achieve it. Be it.

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Maya Angelou on Life

I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels. Life’s a bitch. You’ve got to go out and kick ass

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“Hate, it has caused a lot of problems in the world, but has not solved one yet.”

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“Live as though life was created for you.”

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My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return

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“I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul.”

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“I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul.”

“Seek patience and passion in equal amounts. Patience alone will not build the temple. Passion alone will destroy its walls.

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A cynical young person is almost the saddest sight to see, because it means that he or she has gone from knowing nothing to believing nothing.

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Maya Angelou on Self Improvement

Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better. 

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Nothing will work unless you do

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Maya Angelou on Giving

I have found that among its other benefits, giving liberates the soul of the giver. 

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I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back.

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Maya Angelou on Relationships, Love and Boundaries

If someone shows you who they really are, believe them.

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Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.

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Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.

“If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?”

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“When people see the laughing face, even if they’re jealous of it, their burden is lightened. But do it first for yourself. Laugh and dare to try to love somebody, starting with yourself.”

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“I not only have the right to stand up for myself, but I have the responsibility. I can’t ask somebody else to stand up for me if I won’t stand up for myself. And once you stand up for yourself, you’d be surprised that people say, “Can I be of help?”

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Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time.

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Maya Angelou on Female Empowerment

Maya Angelou each time a woman stands up for herself... she stands up for all women.

Each time a woman stands up for herself, without knowing it possibly, without claiming it, she stands up for all women.

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“I am a Woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal Woman, that’s me.”

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Long and Deep Maya Angelou Self Love Quote

We have shared many impactful short Maya Angelou quotes and here is a longer one to read and contemplate.

If you can’t get enough, then check out some of her books and keep reading.

“I don’t know if I continue, even today, always liking myself. But what I learned to do many years ago was to forgive myself. It is very important for every human being to forgive herself or himself because if you live, you will make mistakes- it is inevitable.

But once you do and you see the mistake, then you forgive yourself and say, ‘Well, if I’d known better I’d have done better,’ that’s all.

So you say to people who you think you may have injured, ‘I’m sorry,’ and then you say to yourself, ‘I’m sorry.’ 

If we all hold on to the mistake, we can’t see our own glory in the mirror because we have the mistake between our faces and the mirror; we can’t see what we’re capable of being.

You can ask forgiveness of others, but in the end the real forgiveness is in one’s own self. 

I think that young men and women are so caught by the way they see themselves. Now mind you. When a larger society sees them as unattractive, as threats, as too black or too white or too poor or too fat or too thin or too sexual or too asexual, that’s rough. But you can overcome that.

The real difficulty is to overcome how you think about yourself. If we don’t have that we never grow, we never learn, and sure as hell we should never teach.”

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Maya Angelou Phenomenal Woman Poem

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.

I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size   

But when I start to tell them,

They think I’m telling lies.

I say,

It’s in the reach of my arms,

The span of my hips,   

The stride of my step,   

The curl of my lips.   

I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,   

That’s me.

I walk into a room

Just as cool as you please,   

And to a man,

The fellows stand or

Fall down on their knees.   

Then they swarm around me,

A hive of honey bees.   

I say,

It’s the fire in my eyes,   

And the flash of my teeth,   

The swing in my waist,   

And the joy in my feet.   

I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

Men themselves have wondered   

What they see in me.

They try so much

But they can’t touch

My inner mystery.

When I try to show them,   

They say they still can’t see.   

I say,

It’s in the arch of my back,   

The sun of my smile,

The ride of my breasts,

The grace of my style.

I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

Now you understand

Just why my head’s not bowed.   

I don’t shout or jump about

Or have to talk real loud.   

When you see me passing,

It ought to make you proud.

I say,

It’s in the click of my heels,   

The bend of my hair,   

the palm of my hand,   

The need for my care.   

’Cause I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

Maya Angelou, “Phenomenal Woman” from And Still I Rise. Copyright © 1978 by Maya Angelou. Used by permission of Random House, an imprint and division of Penguin Random House LLC. All rights reserved. Source: The Complete Collected Poems of Maya Angelou (Random House Inc., 1994)

Maya Angelou Books

Along with all of Maya Angelou’s great achievements, she has 18 best selling books, including books of poetry and autobiographies, and 38 books in total. The most famous of which is her autobiography, I know why the caged bird sings.

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Anna is a Wales-based writer and graduate from SOAS University of London.
As the voice behind On Your Journey, she empowers women to embrace holistic well-being and spiritual growth through her expert insights into wellness and symbolism.
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